If you could let go of the idea that this needs to be hard, it will actually start to be EASY.
There will be hard MOMENTS, yes.
There will be many times when you feel like screaming into your pillow and possibly even pulling your hair out (it’s more tempting than you’d think!).
There will be moments when you will question your sanity, wonder why on earth you ever thought this was a good idea.
There will be moments that will break you.
And there will be many of these moments, yes. That said –
They will feel like nothing when you get to then experience the ease. The ease doesn’t just HAPPEN. The ease follows the hurt.
Pain first. Pleasure next.
Over and over. Until pleasure becomes your baseline and pain becomes something you rarely experience.
But this takes practice.
This takes YOU, getting up to the plate, over and over, day in and day out, taking the hits and getting RIGHT THE FUCK BACK UP and screaming “IS THAT ALL YOU’VE GOT?!?!”.
This doesn’t have to be a long, drawn-out process, like you’ve been making it. It can happen straight away.
But first.
A decision. To change your reality.
A decision. To elevate your normal.
If you simply accept that “this is just the way things are” when it comes to your success, your income, your sales, your life, your clients.. anything –
That will continue to be your normal.
If that’s what you want –
For things to stay the same –
Cool.
But if not? You need to elevate your normal.
Decide what is normal for you NOW.
If you want more money, ASK for more money. Decide it’s done. Decide it’s normal.
If you want to be in a soulmate relationship, ASK for that. Decide.
If you want to quit your job to do your business full time, ASK for that. Decide it’s done. (+ quit that soul-sucking job, once and for all!)
What you see as normal is always what you will receive and experience.
So if you don’t like what you’ve got goin’ on, why not just ask for something better? 🙂
(Yes, it’s really that easy!)
What’s it gonna be, then?
xx,
Cassie