ON BEING AN IRRESPONSIBLE, SELFISH, DELUSIONAL BITCH

I’ve been called many things in my life. 

But most of all, I’ve been called irresponsible. Selfish. Delusional. And I’m frequently called a bitch by many. 

All because I long ago decided to put myself first, and to go after what I want, no matter how “unlikely” it is to happen.

I decided that, regardless of what people thought of me, I was going to trust my gut and do the things that felt right for ME. 

If taking care of ourselves and going after what we desire in life makes us an irresponsible, selfish, delusional bitch, then, I guess what’s just what we are, huh?

Because YES, we will always do the things that make us feel most ALIVE, even if others tell us that we’re crazy. 

We are ambitious AF and have big dreams, and never will we allow others to tell us what we can or can’t accomplish. 

And YES, we will always take care of ourselves and do things for US that have us feeling AMAZING, even if that makes others uncomfortable. 

We understand that if we don’t take care of ourselves, we can hardly help others. 

And YES, we will set big, huge, wildly “unrealistic” goals every damn day of the week. 

We know what we’re capable of. And we’ve never been “realistic” anyway. 😉

And YES, we speak our mind, say what we really think, and share our opinions loudly - what we have to say is VALID and VALUABLE.

We don’t care if others disagree. We only care that we stay true to who we are. (And those who don’t like that can STFU and go away. 👋🏻)

WE GO AFTER WHAT WE WANT.

WE ARE HERE TO DO BIG THINGS IN THE WORLD.

WE LOVE OURSELVES ENOUGH TO DO WHAT WE LOVE.

WE ARE UNAPOLOGETIC ABOUT WHO WE ARE. 

And this is exactly why people are afraid of us. This is why we’re often off on our own. This is why we’re almost always called “stuck up” and why we call ourselves “introverts”. 

But the reality is – 

Who we are is powerful - and people tend to be afraid of powerful people. It is what it is.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

But we love people. 

We love to help people.

Our biggest mission is to make the world a better place with what we do. 

Yet we are constantly doubted. People are always rolling their eyes or shaking their head at us when we share our goals and intentions. We are talked about badly because we spoke up about something we believe in and someone got their feelings hurt. 

But we are here. 

We are here and we’re not going away. 

We will not be stopped. 

We will continue, despite the doubters & the haters, to show up every day and spread our message and do the work we’ve been called to do.

Every day you will see us. You will hear us. And if you’re triggered by that, then methinks you should take a look at what’s going on inside of you that’s causing that trigger to occur. 🙂

If you’ve been told that you’re too much, you’re too loud, you’re too obsessed – 

I want you to know that you are wanted - just as you are. You are needed - just as you are. 

Keep showing up. Keep sharing your voice. Keep speaking your truth. Keep giving the world what you know that it so desperately needs. 

Keep shining your light. For when you shine yours, you give others’ permission to shine theirs. And in the end, the world becomes a brighter place. 

xx,
Cassie