We all want more visibility.
The more visible you are, the more people you can share your message with, the more people you can help, the more money you can make.
So it astounds me when people don’t put more effort into becoming more visible. If you’re not visible, you’re wasting your time. It’s as simple as that. You won’t be able to have the same impact without massive visibility!
It’s a MUST.
And I know you want to make an impact.
You want to help people, yes?
You want to make more money, correct?
So why aren’t you making visibility a priority? Not just as a “nice to do”, but as a MUST DO, every day?
If you want to stand out and be noticed so you can impact more people and make more money, be different and do things that are different from what others are doing. Don’t fake anything, but don’t try to hide who you really are, either.
Trust me, that’s no fun and it doesn’t do what you think it will.
I used to hide all of the tattoos on my body.
I used to lie about what I liked and disliked so I would fit in.
I used to bit my tongue instead of speaking my mind.
I used to wear clothes that were more “my age”.
I used to pretend I enjoyed small talk with anyone.
I faked it all the time because I wanted to be liked and I wanted to fit in with everyone. I never truly was liked (not the real me, anyway), and I never did end up fitting it!
Both of which were a gift, actually. Because last night I cyber-stalked those people I used to try and fit in with, and it appears thar most of them work shitty jobs they hate and are always complaining about how the world is out to get them (many still even live at home and bitch about being broke).
Glad I dodged that bullet.
I can’t even imagine being friends with those people now.
I wasn’t meant to fit in with them. I wasn’t meant to be liked by them. The universe had other (much better) plans for me. 😉
Just like you aren’t meant to fit in with or be liked by most of the people you’re likely trying to fit in with right now. If you have to TRY to fit in, you’re doing it wrong. It should be natural, the relationship should be easy. It should feel RIGHT.
If you really want to stand out and be noticed –
If you want to grow your tribe in a big way –
If you want to be known as an expert at what you do –
You need to do something radically different from what everyone else is doing. And what that is?
Show off your tattoos.
Be honest about what you like and don’t like.
Say exactly what’s on your mind.
Dress in a way that makes you feel good.
Do things you love & enjoy, and fuck the rest.
It’s easy to stand out when so many others are trying to fit in.
Who you are as a person –
And I mean who you TRULY are, not who you think people want you to be –
You will shock some people, but in a good way. They’ll either really love you and how honest and real you are, or they’ll despise you (which is really just jealousy that you’re so confident in who you are!).
So go ahead –
Show us who you really are.
Show us what others are afraid to show.
Show us what it means to stand out.
Do you really want to be different?
Do you really want to stand out and make a big difference in the world and make amazing money doing it?
Here’s what you do –
JUST. BE. YOU.