NEWSFLASH!

If you want to create something in your life (making more money, moving into your dream home, whatever..), you can’t just sit around and wait for it to happen. It’s gonna require more than you meditating and visualizing and journaling about it being real.. You also need to MAKE IT HAPPEN. Meaning: You also need to do the work. Although meditation, visualization, and journaling, are all great tools for manifesting, they are not the answer. They will not get you what you want, unless you combine them with some good ol’ fashioned WORK. There are coaches out there teaching you to “let it be easy” and ease this, ease that, and YES OF COURSE IT CAN FEEL EASY.. but that doesn’t mean hustle-free. That doesn’t mean you sit around, watch TV, and eat tacos all day (most days, anyway… ). Success, getting what you want? It comes from WORKING. It comes from DOIN’ STUFF. It comes from taking ACTION. Yes - do the mindset work - definitely do the mindset work - but do not, I repeat, DO NOT stop there. Journaling is a TOOL.  Meditation is a TOOL. Doing “what feels good” is a TOOL Visualization is a TOOL. Listening to your gut is a TOOL. But that’s just it – Those things are tools you can use to help you achieve what you so desire, but they are not the ONLY tool. Journaling is not the only tool. Meditation is not the only tool. In other words: You are focusing on one piece of the puzzle, when you need to be focusing on ALL of the pieces. It’s...

Ending the month in FEAR, LACK and FRUSTRATION again? Here’s why (and how to stop it)..

Do you ever wonder what life would be like if you just decided to drop the bullshit excuses you keep spewing and ACTUALLY went all the way in on you dreams? You’re stuck in this place of feeling defeated, angry, frustrated, like your heart is about to explode out of your chest from the STRESS of it all and you just can’t BREATHE anymore.. You’re writing and selling and doing all the STUFF “they” tell you to do, but it’s not WORKING! Whatever you’re selling ISN’T selling and you’re questioning WHY, again. Didn’t this JUST happen? How does it KEEP happening? Every time you go online you hear people talk about 6-figure launches and million dollar businesses that they seemingly created overnight and you’re over here like… why won’t my $200 offer sell?!  Listen UP, this is what you need to know:  You’re doing it again. You know, that thing you ALWAYS do. When you KNOW exactly what you MUST do, but instead you fall back into THIS –  Into scarcity Into resistance Into fear And yep, of course, into stalking people online and looking at THEIR successes and comparing them to your own (or lack thereof!). You’re doing it AGAIN –  Falling into the trap of believing that it has to be HARD, that you need to really WORK for it, that it’s not supposed to be EASY or FUN and that this is just how it IS!  But no. You’re wrong. And..  You’re doing it again –  Not allowing yourself to have what you want (you know - the FREEDOM you promised yourself? which is the whole...
WANNA HAVE IT ALL? THE MONEY, THE LIFE, THE BUSINESS OF YOUR FREAKIN’ DREAMS?

WANNA HAVE IT ALL? THE MONEY, THE LIFE, THE BUSINESS OF YOUR FREAKIN’ DREAMS?

Stop complaining that “nothing is working” when YOU are the one that isn’t working. Success? Guess what - comes from work. Comes from putting in the time, doing the actions, day after day, until they freakin’ STICK, and then on and on still. Money? You want money? Cool… so why aren’t you asking for it then? Why aren’t you showing up every day and asking for the sale, promoting your offers consistently, telling people HOW they can send you money? Why? Why are you so obsessed with having it all, but not obsessed with doing what’s necessary to HAVING it all? Guess what – Hate to break it to ya (not really), but you will never have it all until you decide you’ll settle for nothing less and then you - yes - DO THE DAMN THING. You work.  You show up.  You make it happen. You keep going, even when it feels like it’s not working, you press on. Because that big break you’re hoping for? Is right around the freakin’ corner. It’s right there. You’re so damn close. Don’t quit while you’re ahead. The reason you don’t yet have what you want is not because it’s unavailable for you, it’s because you haven’t decided that it’s FOR you, right now. Because let me tell ya – Once you commit to something there’s NOTHING you can’t achieve. The insipired ideas you wait around all day for? They won’t come until you first commit. To getting what you want. To having what you want. This is your freakin’ LIFE. Are you sure you wanna keep living it the way...
I know a secret about you…

I know a secret about you…

There’s a thing you do..  A thing you CONTINUALLY do..  That’s driving you deeper and deeper still into that big black hole of hell that makes you feel opressed, depressed, and tired as fuck.  You can claw your way around in that hole all you want, but.. sorry to break it to ya –  You ain’t coming out. You’re stuck. Down there. Until –  You get over your motherfucking bullshit that is keeping you so damn stuck.  Right now you’re overwhelmed as all else. Looking at this chick and that chick and OMG HOW DO THEY DO THAT? You look at women like me, and others LIKE me, and wonder… how is it so easy for them? I don’t get it. What am I doing wrong? It’s like she has some kind of magic touch - everything she does seems to succeed. I want that! You’ve done all the things.  Created programs that were a hell yes for you but that no one bought (talk about a smack in the face that was) Been talking to a potential client who were all YES, I’M IN! but then disappeared and never signed up to work with you (ouch) Gave away tons and tons of free content to HOPEFULLY be seen as THE expert that people should want to hire, but who didn’t (that’s embarassing) You’ve given up time, blood, sweat, tears… a whole ton of tears… and you’re frustrated as hell right now.  If we’re being honest here, you’ve been settling. Settling for what’s easy, what you don’t have to push to achieve. When really, you LOVE the push. You...
OMG, you are SO selfish!

OMG, you are SO selfish!

I’ve been hearing that I’m selfish for most of my life because I’ve always been one to continually ask for more. You, too? I don’t understand why people think it’s such a bad thing to always be striving to go to the next level – To reach the next milestone – To smash through the glass ceiling, yet again – And yet, we hear this all the time, don’t we? “Why can’t you just be happy with what you have?” and “You’re being selfish!” and similar questions and statements. How many times have you purchased something and someone commented on how you’re never satisfied, you’re selfish, you’re crazy, you should relax, you should be satisfied with what you have, you always go “overboard”, you’re all about the money… Probably often, right? And the unfortunate thing is that this often comes from our friends and family. Those that are the closest to us, that, in their mind, are trying to protect us. From what, I don’t know. Maybe from hurt in case we lose it all? Maybe from being disappointed that we won’t enjoy what we just invested money on/in? I don’t know. But I do know that when you make comments and ask questions like this, especially when someone spends money on something thay are REALLY excited about, it makes us sad. It makes us feel judged. But mostly, it makes us want to punch you in the face for being dickhead and trying to rain on our parade. I’m grateful that I have people in my life that support me and find excitment and joy in MY excitement and joy....
GET BACK UP, I GOT YOU, YOU DON’T BELONG DOWN THERE ON THE FLOOR!

GET BACK UP, I GOT YOU, YOU DON’T BELONG DOWN THERE ON THE FLOOR!

It’s easy to say you’re ALL IN! You’re ready! You’re gonna do it this time! This is YOUR YEAR! And it’s another thing to actually.. ya know.. do it. Because shit comes up. Feelings. Thoughts. Fears. Obstacles. Concerns. And you freeze. You stop moving forward. You take a step back so you can what? Figure it out? Pffft! Wanna know how to figure shit out when it all hits the fan? You be IN IT. You don’t stand back and observe it. You be in it, feel whatever you need to feel, get out whatever you need to get out, ask for what you actually WANT to have happen, surrender to the outcome, and then get the fuck back up and move forward. Nothing will slow you down faster than taking a step back to observe. Whaaaaaat?! No! Stay in it, ESPECIALLY the hard parts, because the hard parts are where you receive the biggest lessons and downloads, and those downloads have the potential to change everythaaang! Every day, you’ve gotta be on the prowl. On a mission. To do what you came here to do. That means – One foot in front of the other.  One foot step at a time.  One action in each moment. Daily. Over and over. On repeat. Until it fucking STICKS. Which may take years. Or months. Or weeks. Or even days. And that’s the thing.. you just never know how long it will take. Which is why you need to keep pushing until it’s DONE. The universe response to action, and this is a truth I really want you to take to heart, because...