When I do this, my success skyrockets!

So people don’t agree with you - so what?  So they look at you and complain about how you said something, why you said something, or the thing you said itself wasn’t good enough for them. It was mean. It was boring. It was annoying. It made no sense. It wasn’t funny.  What  The Fuck Ever So people talk crap about you behind your back  - so what? So people told someone else that you were a bad business woman, bad coach, bad PERSON - so what? So people gave you the angry face on your latest Facebook post… LOL - so what? So people said mean things about you - so what? Are you gonna let them stop you? Are you gonna back off what you came here to do, because your feelings got a little hurt?  Are you gonna allow the thoughts and opinions of others slow you down, or knock you off course? One hard truth you need to understand is that with success comes ridicule. The more successful you are, the more haters will pop up and try to run you down.  Good news though! You don’t have to give a fuck. You don’t have to pay any attention to anyone you don’t wanna pay attention to - and the best people to ignore are the people that try to tear you down.  In fact, the more attention you give to those who are so AGAINST you, what you stand for, what you believe, the more you’re letting them win. And the more you’re allowing yourself to be pushed around.  Why are you standing for that shit?...

The value is you / The work is you / The product is you – and this is how you get PAID

I was thinking about this today as I was lying in bed, trying desperately to sleep just a liiiittle bit longer, while my body was having NONE of that – Around how for some people, making money is like breathing (so easy), while for others, it’s like pulling teeth. Excruciating. Hard. Time-Consuming. And I got to thinking.. For everyone that struggles with making money, getting paid to do what they love, what is it that they’re missing? The answer was obvious, as it always is: They ain’t sellin’ THEM. They’re trying to piece together the perfect offer. They’re looking at what everyone else is doing and just doing that, thinking it’s gonna work for them, too. They’re pricing “strategically”. See, it’s not about what you’re doing, it’s about who you’re BEING, because what you’re really selling? Is YOU. Your energy. Your vibe. You don’t have to worry about saying the right thing, doing the right thing.. You just have to show up, be yourself, and say what’s on your heart. There’s no real strategy other than the strategy for being you and sharing who you are with the world. Sharing what you’re passionate about. Sharing what you can’t stand behind. Sharing what you believe in fully. Sharing what you’re doing, how you’re living, what you’re experiencing. Sharing the good days, and the bad. Being authentic and real. That’s what will allow you to build a relationship with your audience. That’s what will attract tribes of soulmate peeps into your space. That’s what will get you paid. None of the other stuff is as powerful as just you being YOU....

When are you FINALLY gonna say YES to your soul?

What you charge for your programs and services is irrelevant. You could charge $2 or $200,000 and it wouldn’t matter. You will STILL have people say “no”, and you will still have people say “yes”. Because what really matters is never the price tag, it’s the value associated with it. That’s what people are interested in. The price is just a small detail. If you can sell me a RESULT, I don’t care what the price is, I. AM. IN! When I signed on to work with my coaches, it wasn’t because they were “cheap” or because I could “afford” them, it was because my soul told me I had no other choice. That this WAS my answer. Even though it made zero sense on paper, even though I was drowning in debt, credit cards maxed out, bleeding money like crazy, I STILL invested a lot of money in coaching. Not because I’m insane (although some may argue this fact!), but because I’m fucking SMART. Because I know that every time I invest in myself in a big way like that, I get the motherfucking results. Every time I push myself just outside of my comfort zone, I experience bigger and better shifts than I ever have in the past when I was just playing it safe. I don’t give a shit what the price is. If I can get a RESULT from that financial investment, I’ll find a way to make it happen. I’ve spent well over $100,000 on coaches and mentorships and will spend MUCH more than that in the coming months, because I know how VALUABLE...
How to manifest ANYTHING you want

How to manifest ANYTHING you want

The funny thing about people is that they say they want something, but they don’t PROVE it with their actions, and so of course they don’t get it, and complain that “this manifesting stuff doesn’t work”. LOL Come on now. You didn’t really think that writing down a few affirmations in your journal each day was enough, did you? You don’t really believe that in order to manifest, you just ask for something and then sit around and wait until you’re INSPIRED to do something to make it happen? Wrong and wrong and wrong and wrong x infinity. Here’s what’s up: To manifest ANYTHING, there IS a process. You need to do a series of things in order to bring what you want to life. It won’t just magically appear in your life because you asked for it or visualized about it one time. It comes because you know it’s already THERE. ACTION is a big part of that process. What you want? It comes when you decide and then take action. Messy action that comes from being in your Feel Good Flow State. Meaning: You’ve gotta do stuff. And the STUFF is always “what feels good right now”. So today your stuff might be: - write a post on FB about a comment someone made, that I wanna rant about - send an email to ______ about my 6-month program I think they’d be perfect for  - get my nails done because I want to feel like a boss lady and sexy nails makes me feel that way - message my coach about my new sales page and...

It’s time to let go, drop the struggle, and manifest the fuck out of EVERYTHING you desire

Do you ever have one of those days where you feel completely blank, don’t know what to say, and feel overwhelmed with the thought of doing anything but just sitting down and eating a donut for breakfast?  Or how about the days when you do ALL THE THINGS, but at night, before you lie down to go to sleep, you wonder to yourself “what the fuck did I even DO today?”, feeling completely unaccomplished, even though you did so much? Here’s the good news:  You’re not alone.  There are people out there, just like you, who ocassionally have a really shitty day, and also, have really freakin’ amazing days.  The other good news is this: You can have more amazing days than shitty days if you just decide to. Stop focusing on the shitty days or the shitty feelings, and focus on the amazing. That’s when the amazing happens. This morning I woke up and immediately felt a sense of panic at all I need to do before I leave for the airport to go home to my big comfy bed and snuggly kitties.  I really wanted to sleep in. I didn’t want to throw the covers off and freeze my ass off (hot damn it’s COLD in the mornings here!). But I made a choice: A choice that I would feel ACCOMPLISHED and RELAXED today, during my travels.  And I can’t feel accomplished and relaxed if I don’t do my morning activities.  So I got up.  Shivered as I got dressed, made my mushroom coffee, sat down, and got my hustle on.  I journaled, I wrote. I did...
HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?

HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?

Here’s the thing:  Not everyone is gonna make it.  Not everyone is going to get the results, have the success they want,  or live the life they crave. It’s sad, but it’s the damn truth. Most people that you meet will live their days doing shit they don’t wanna do, because they were told and/or believe that they have to.  They won’t ever get to experience what it’s like to live life on their terms. And this frustrates me beyond belief because all I want to do is help people to have it all. I want them to see just how EASY it can be to be, do and have the things that they desire.  But… They cant. And they won’t. Because they’re not willing to go all in.  They’re not willing to do the work (yeah, there is work involved, you DO need to roll up your sleeves and get shit done!), or at least not all the time anyway! They’d rather go over here and do this, or go over there and do that, that’s way more fun. Well yeah, so then don’t expect to have it all.  The thing about success (money success, life success, body success, relationship success, business success… whatever), is that it requires you to work your motherfucking ass off. I’m sorry, hate to break it to ya - but you’ve gotta WERK, GIRL. The work can be easy, it can be exciting & fun, and it doesn’t even need to FEEL like work, but the work MUST. GET. DONE. There’s no other way around it.  I am where I am today because...