If there’s one thing that’ll get me hittin’ the BLOCK button at lightening speed is if I hear you complain about how your life is so damn hard.
We all have hard stuff that we go through; doesn’t mean that life overall is hard.
The truth is that life is only as hard as you decide it is. Which also means that life can also be as EASY as you decide it is.
Just a few years ago, I was one of the most bitter, angry, negative people you could ever have the misfortune of bumping into. Everything set me off.
I was angry all of the time, and people noticed and would ask me why I was like that.. to which I honestly didn’t have an answer.
It was easier, I guess? Easier than figuring out exactly why I WAS that way, and what I needed to do to turn things around. It was so much easier to just stick to my guns and complain, than it was to do something differently.
Plus, doing something differently would mean I was doing things wrong, and I don’t like to be wrong.
It wasn’t until I stumbled upon the coaching industry and found my first mentor, which was (and is) the most positive, upbeat person I’ve ever met in my life.
She turned things around for me - just being around her and in her energy changed me as a person.
I’ve since met SO many other people who are similar. Happy. Positive. High on life.
And want to know something funny?
I didn’t even have to learn HOW to be happier, more positive.. all I had to do was make sure I was around people who were like that, and remove the toxic people from my life who were dragging me down.
That’s it! There was no course to take. No process to follow.
To be happier, to drop the negativity and anger, all that was required of me was to be in the energy of happy, positive people, to connect with them, to listen to them, and to observe how they do life.
Fucking LIFE CHANGING, I tell ya!
So when I see people complaining about how shit is hard, how the world is out to get them, how nothing ever goes their way… part of me wants to lecture them on how to stop being a crybaby and change their life, and the other part of me wants to just walk away and forget I ever knew them (which is often what I decide to do), so I can protect my energy and save it from being contaminated.
The sad thing is, happiness, and ease, and fun, and flow.. all of that stuff is available to everyone, but most people will never experience it (not long-term, anyway), because they’re too damn stubborn to make it a priority.
I want to show you how possible it is to change your life for the better. How simple it actually is. And how doing this will DRASTICALLY improve every single area of your world.
Showing people how to get paid to do what they love, to make money simply by being themselves, and in a way that is EASY and FUN and doesn’t even feel like work, is my FAVORITE thing ever.
It’s my life’s work. It’s what I was born to do.