I love it when people doubt me.
I’m not embarrassed to admit that nothing gives me more pleasure than rubbing it in the face of someone who doubted me, that I did EXACTLY what they said I couldn’t.
Say I won’t be the next female Tony Robbins.
Say I won’t make money when I use the word FUCK in my content.
Say I won’t have my own TV show (5-seasons in, yo!).
Say I won’t collaborate with the best of the best.
Say I won’t be able to afford a beach house (or two).
Say I won’t bring in $100K a month regularly.
Say I won’t generate millions every year just being ME.
Say I won’t fly in private jets.
Say I won’t be able to keep up this luxury lifestyle I’ve created for myself.
SAY I WON’T.
Because that just puts a fire under my ass to do it even more.
When someone tells me I can’t do something, not only do I do it, but I do it better and faster than I said I would. And I get immense pleasure saying I TOLD YOU I WOULD! Because let’s be real; sometimes I need to say that just so I believe it myself.
Even though I believe in myself 100%, sometimes doubt creeps in, especially when my goals are huge. And so when someone sees my goals and thinks they are “too big” and can’t be done, I say thank you.
Because that’s just the push I need to make them happen. Because I can’t have them be right! Hell no! So I hustle harder, make it happen, pat myself on the back and set an even BIGGER goal next time.
Whatever you need to do that makes you want to hustle harder than you already are, focus on that.
Because no matter how hard you think you’re pushing it, you can push even HARDER.
I don’t even think you realize just how much further you can go than you already have.
How much harder you can push.
How much more you can hustle.
How much more you can achieve.
How much better things can be.
And the only person standing in your way of having it all is you.
Your mind.
What you THINK you can do.
What you’ve been TOLD you can do.
But most importantly, what you believe you CAN’T do.
Today, write down 10 things you’ve been told are impossible to have/do/be. 10 things you, deep down, kinda sorta maybe a little bit BELIEVE that you can’t have. 10 things.
And then flip it around and tell yourself you already HAVE these things. You ARE these things. You DO these things. Write it. Say it. BELIEVE it. Don’t stop writing and speaking these statements until you believe them!
Then, take one of those big scary goals that you’ve been told you can’t achieve and GO AFTER IT. Now. Today. Take one step in the direction of that goal being DONE.
Plan for success.
Because success will only come if you believe it’s coming.
If you doubt yourself
If you doubt your abilities
If you doubt the process
Then you will end up wandering around, lost and confused, and that goal of yours will NOT be happening!
Any goal you have is attainable. Anything is possible. ANYTHING. Look at Donald Fucking Trump for example! No one thought he would hit that goal of becoming president. People laughed at him. Said it was a joke that he was even running. Didn’t take him seriously at all.
And now look who’s on his way to the White House.
All because HE believed in his ability to reach his goal
All because HE never once doubted himself
All because HE planned only for success
I say it’s a good thing when people doubt you and don’t take you seriously. Because then you sneak up on them, CRUSH IT, and then leave them wondering why they never believed in you!
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: FUCK THE NAYSAYERS.
But at the same time: EMBRACE THE NAYSAYERS. Because they’re the ones who are there to test you. To push you harder and harder to see how much you can take. To make you really PROVE IT - that you CAN do what you want, say what you want, and truly have it all.
It’s all about getting focused on who you want to be
What you want to do
What you want to have
Then doing whatever it takes to have everything. And if part of that means fighting to prove the doubters wrong, then use that as the fire to get you moving and making shit happen in your life.