What If You Just Decided It Was Gonna Be Easy? 

What If You Just Decided It Was Gonna Be Easy? 

I think it’s pretty obvious that you’re making things way harder than they have to be. You know that, right? Things probably FEEL tough right now You probably FEEL like it’s so hard It’s also probably true that you FEEL scared Or overwhelmed Or unsure Or confused Or annoyed Or frustrated Or… OR! How about this instead – How about you just choose to not be any of those things or feel any of those feelings? What if you just decided it was gonna be EASY instead? What if you made a conscious decision that from here on out, whatever you choose to do – It’s going to be SO freakin’ EASY? Would that make you feel better? Do you think that would make you more productive? Do you think you’d get more done if the work felt easy? Do you think you’d make more money if making money felt easy? Have you ever wondered – “How does she/he do it? They make it seem so easy!” Probably once or twice, right? 😉 Well, have you ever considered that maybe they make it seem so easy because it IS actually easy for them? And if it’s easy for them, it can be easy for you, too! I think the most frustrating I see and hear every day is THE STRUGGLE. “It’s too hard” “It’s not working” “It’s taking too long” I read posts, I read emails, I have private conversations – All which often include me being asked “how do you do it all?” or “how is it so easy for you?” – To which my answer is always:...
I Used To Be A Coupon Clipper, Now I Do Things Like This

I Used To Be A Coupon Clipper, Now I Do Things Like This

I have a landscaper that cuts our grass, and trims our bushes & trees every week. I have groceries delivered weekly - most of them being organic (something I used to believe I couldn’t ever afford). Someone comes to my house twice per year to change the tires on my car (winters to all-seasons, and all-seasons to winters). I also have a company come to the house to clean my car (inside and out), every few months (sometimes more often). Our house is cleaned 3 times per week, every week. (Not currently during the pandemic.) When I travel more than 5 hours, I fly business class. I sit up front with all of the old dudes (usually those are the only people in business class.) We live in one of the most prestigious neighbourhoods in all of Toronto. Our neighbours are doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, high-end realtors, and dentists. I pay for my parents to travel with us and don’t flinch at the added expense. We often spend multiple weeks in Muskoka every summer (Muskoka is to Toronto what The Hamptons is to New York). I drive cars that I used to think only the super rich got to drive. I buy myself - for the most part - whatever I want, whenever I want it, and rarely need to look at the price tag. Coming from a background of lack and scarcity (and mounds and mounds of debt), it was a difficult transition for me. At first I felt guilty for making so much money, and for how easy it became for me to do & have what I...